There are Variations & Explorations…

        As we interact, often uses the power of questioning, visualization & knowledge by identity… sometimes narration in action or use discussions...
        
        It is observed that, before the age of 10 years blindly accept anything what is being said as ‘good for you’. But after the age of 14 years depends on personality begin to question, if you ask to follow a rule of words, they will ask why?

        It is therefore, necessary to understand why this change is taking place. As a part of the larger development, nature implants the instinct, while the layer of personality is forming. Actually wants to establish the ego identity as a separate unit. As if, I am a individual mental being...

        But the consolidation of identity cannot take place until the mind development starts, which is generally after 12 years, especially after 14 years with emotional mind, and finally after 18 years the abstract emotional mind forms...

        At this stage, you find the most of rebelliousness, because of the realization… " It’s my life, don’t interfere with what I do, let me make my own choice & make my own mistakes. I want to find out what is this all about…and opposed to the rest of the world ".

        Exactly here, the Nature is creating own ego identity for the purpose, because the Nature wants individual units…

        As soon as the ego identity is complete, the nature does make you fall in love through its instinct, which happens after the age of 7 years. Thus someone else becomes more important, want to make someone else happy and wish to dedicate the rest of life caring for someone else…

        It does not last too long, and that identity gets broken, while remain no longer the same thereafter, even if that infatuation has passed. Then will realize, to have the support of others, and to have the care, and love, and affection, and to be with others, in a certain identity & companionship. Then on start widening that personality…

        After the age of 40 years, as in the case of myself! Likely feel completed the cycle of exploration of life, and vitality is now falling, feel the touch of age… Starts thinking what I really got after all this and whatever held wish I could share it more with people…

        So will comes the last phase, when you want to give and share all that we have and then we say, if my children’s know what I know today and start trying to advice them! But they says, ‘no let me find it in my own way’…You have to understand this sequence. It is necessary for them to question, encourage their questioning, but remember, they will tend to bound to a materialistic perception of life.

        You may question them! Have it happened to you that you felt some help from within, feel some peace within, you got answers and something did change? If it does happens, then is some basis to it, bring them into this awareness, have linked the personality to the psychic core...

        However, those who are excessively materialistic, you need to do it much more, not through narration but through discussions…
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        "The truth is, nature always wants the units identity at the focal points of consciousness, but the greater truth is an identity of consciousness supporting all these units from behind".